Friend affidavits for I-130 and I-751
Letter of support for a green card from a friend (sample)
Last updated 2026-10-01
A friend’s letter of support for a marriage green card should identify the friend (name, address, date and place of birth), explain how and since when they have known the couple, and describe specific moments they personally witnessed. Friends are valuable writers because they see the couple in everyday settings that documents cannot show.
Why a friend’s letter helps
Family members are expected to be supportive. Friends, coworkers and neighbors are often seen as more neutral — and they tend to see couples in ordinary settings: dinners, trips, moving days, birthdays. Those details are exactly what USCIS means by “complete information and details explaining how the person acquired his or her knowledge” of the marriage, a phrase that appears in both the I-130 and I-751 instructions.
Fill-in outline for a friend
- Identity block: full name, full address, date of birth, place of birth, relationship (“friend of both spouses”), phone or email.
- How you met each spouse: when, where, through whom.
- How often you see them now, and where — their home, your home, regular events.
- Two to four specific scenes with approximate dates: their wedding, a trip, helping them move, holidays, a hard moment you saw them handle together.
- What you know only second-hand, clearly labeled (“They told me they…”), or left out.
- A short closing in your own words and your willingness to be contacted.
- Truthfulness statement, handwritten signature and date — or sign in front of a notary.
Sample letter from a friend who lives in another city
Many friends do not live nearby. This sample shows how a long-distance friend can still write a credible letter by being precise about when they saw the couple — and honest about what they only heard about. Names and details are fictional.
AFFIDAVIT OF HANNAH KOWALSKI Re: Marriage of Omar Haddad and Julia Simmons
Full name: Hannah Marie Kowalski Address: 95 Cedar Lane, Unit 12, Denver, CO 80203 Date of birth: July 21, 1993 Place of birth: Milwaukee, Wisconsin Relationship: Friend of both spouses; college roommate of Julia Simmons Email: hannah.k@example.com
I have known Julia Simmons since 2011, when we were assigned as roommates at the University of Wisconsin. We have stayed close since; we text almost daily and visit each other at least twice a year. I met Omar Haddad in December 2022, when Julia brought him to my apartment in Denver for a weekend ski trip. They had been dating for about four months at the time.
I flew to Chicago for their wedding on April 20, 2024, and gave a short speech at the reception. Since the wedding I have stayed with them in their apartment in Evanston three times: Thanksgiving 2024, a long weekend in July 2025, and New Year’s 2026. Each time I slept on their pull-out couch and saw how their home works — Omar makes coffee for both of them every morning, Julia keeps their shared calendar on the fridge, and their closet, bathroom and kitchen are clearly a shared household.
In July 2025, Omar’s parents were visiting from Amman at the same time I was. Julia had planned the whole weekend around them, including a dinner at their favorite Lebanese restaurant where she ordered for everyone in her beginner Arabic, to Omar’s mother’s delight.
I live in Colorado, so I do not see their daily life in person every week. Julia has told me about other parts of their life — for example, that they recently opened a joint savings account for a house — but I know those things only because she told me. Everything else in this statement I saw myself.
I am glad to answer any questions about this statement.
I declare under penalty of perjury that the foregoing is true and correct. Executed on ______________ (date) at Denver, Colorado. ______________________________ Hannah Kowalski
What makes this friend letter credible
- It is upfront about distance and then gives exact visits instead of vague “I see them often.”
- Overnight stays let the writer describe a shared household first-hand.
- The family scene (cooking for in-laws) is the kind of detail officers remember.
- Hearsay is labeled. The joint savings account is mentioned as something Julia said, not as something the writer saw.
Tips for friends who are asked to write
- Write it — or at least edit it — yourself, so it sounds like you. Letters that read identically across writers raise questions.
- Check dates against your own photos, texts or calendar. Accuracy beats detail.
- Do not include anything you are unsure about. You may be contacted to confirm what you wrote.
- Keep it to one or two pages.
- Sign by hand and give the couple the original signed copy if they file on paper.
Frequently asked questions
Can a friend who is not a U.S. citizen write a letter of support for a green card?
Yes. Citizenship is not one of the listed requirements. What matters is personal knowledge of the marriage and the identifying details USCIS asks for.
Can I write a letter if I only met the couple after the wedding?
Yes, especially for I-751, where the instructions focus on people who have known both spouses since conditional residence was granted. Just describe the period you actually know.
Should a friend include their date of birth and address?
Yes. The I-130 and I-751 instructions both list full name and address and date and place of birth as information each affidavit must contain.
Does my friend’s letter need to be notarized?
Not necessarily — a statement signed under penalty of perjury under 28 U.S.C. § 1746 is a common alternative. See the notarization guide.
Related
Sources
- USCIS, Form I-751 Instructions (edition 04/01/24), "Evidence of the Relationship," item 5
- USCIS, Form I-130 Instructions (edition 04/01/24), documentation of a bona fide marriage, item 5
- 28 U.S.C. § 1746 — unsworn declarations under penalty of perjury
Sample letters on this page use fictional names and details. This page is general information, not legal advice. GreenCard Letters is not a law firm and does not provide legal advice. Not affiliated with USCIS or any government agency. If your case involves a prior denial, a waiver, removal proceedings, or criminal history, talk to an immigration attorney.